I am not telling you that you should forgive others. That’s not mine to say. That is a deeply personal decision, and one only you can make. Only you can know if it’s something you’re ready to do. What I want to say is that you can forgive. That’s the gift God offers us. That is part and parcel of God’s grace. It is possible. Difficult, of course. Almost certainly not once-and-for-all, but a process. But it’s possible. And profoundly, deeply healing.